"Copyright 1975, 1982 by Monica Furlong. This a reprint of the edition originally published by Hodder and Stoughton, London, 1975." -- verso of t.-p.
"I do not see Christian allegiance as a matter of adopting simple answers and I distrust those who thrust them upon others, particularly if they are urging various kinds of heroic behaviour which the speakers are not required to practice themselves -- the heterosexual urging sexual abstinence on the homosexual, celibate priests urging married women not to use contraceptive, or the happily married condemning divorce." "I originally wrote these pieces for the 'Church Times'". -- Preface, pp. 8, 9.
Contents: Preface dated London, 1982 / Monica Furlong --Six Kinds of Loving -- The Seven Deadly Sins -- Seven Christian Words -- Prayer and Pre-Prayer -- Four Last Things -- Seven Uncertainties.
Contents of Six Kinds of Loving section: 1. Love on Oneself -- 2. Love in the Family -- 3. Love in Marriage -- 4. Love of Neighbour -- 5. Love of One's Enemies -- 6. The Love of God.
Contents of The Seven Deadly Sins section: 1. The Seven-Finger Exercise -- 2. Envy -- 3. Gluttony -- 4. Lust -- 5. Sloth -- 6. Avarice -- 7. Anger -- 8. Pride.
Contents of Seven Christian Words section: 1. Conversion -- 2. Sacrament -- 3. Poverty -- 4. Clergy -- 5. Confession -- 6. Fellowship -- 7. Suffering.
Contents of Prayer and Pre-Prayer section: 1. What Do You Mean, Prayer ? -- 2. Letting the Mind Run Down -- 3. Towards Stillness -- 4. Deepening Awareness -- 5. Space for Prayer -- 6. Waiting for God -- 7. Respecting Bodily Needs -- 8. Prayer of Petition -- 9. Prayer of Intercession -- 10. Grumbling at God -- 11. Prayer of Asceticism -- 12. Prayer in the Group -- 13. The Conundrum of Prayer.
Contents of The Four Last Things section: 1. Death -- 2. Judgement -- 3. Hell -- 4. Heaven,
Contents of Seven Uncertainties section: 1. 'Christian Answers' Tend to Oversimplify -- 2. The Problem of Abortion -- 3. The Church's Attitude to Women -- 4. Sex before Marriage -- 5. Marriage and Putting Asunder -- 6. Homosexuality -- 7. Pornography -- 8. Ideals and Idols.
"The idea of 'Clarity and Courage' came to me over time as I watched how other people and I myself handled change. Some people seemed able to embrace what life brought them and move forward. Others seemed stuck and unable to cope. Some, like me, seemed to muddle through. Before my ordination in the Anglican Church of Canada, I had two related careers in broadcasting and corporate communications. My own questions led to several years of indecision. After exploring options, I was ordained and spent a major portion of my life in congregational ministry. .... This book will be particularly useful if you find yourself: wondering what the future holds, seeking a balance between work and life, wondering how to connect your spirit with your work, feeling you are in a transition period in your life, wondering how you could make a contribution to the world, or looking to discern what God is calling you to do and to be". -- Preface.
Contents: Preface -- Suggestions On How to Use This Book -- Part 1: Where the Ideas Come From -- Lost -- Wake-up Calls -- Jazz for Life -- Part 2: The Process of Clarity and Courage -- Names -- Blessings -- Clear -- Courage -- Confidence -- Part 3: Putting It All Together -- Calling -- Action -- Acknowledgements -- About the Author -- End Notes -- Bibliography.
At head of title: The Rita and William H. Bell Professorship in Anglican and Ecumenical Studies
"[By] The Most Reverend Edmond L. Browning, Presiding Bishop, The Episcopal Church".
"Public Lecture, The University of Tulsa, April 25, 1993".
"Compassion feels dangerous to the powerful. If I begin to truly feel your pain, I run the risk of having to change. I may have to stop doring something I'm doing now. Or start doing something I'm not. I may have to give over some of my power. Compassion is inconvenient. .... Compassion prevents us from objectifying other people, the necessary first step towards killing them with whatever death we do that, the death of the body or the death of the soul."
Brief note re "Bell Professorship in Anglican and Ecumenical Studies" and "Future Lectures" on inside front cover. Biographical note on "The Most Reverend Edmond L. Browning" and brief note re "Past Bell Lecturers" on inside back cover.
Series
Bell Distinguished Visiting Professorship and Lecture series ; 4
At head of title: The Rita and William H. Bell Professorship in Anglican and Ecumenical Studies
"[By] The Most Reverend Edmond L. Browning, Presiding Bishop, The Episcopal Church".
"Public Lecture, The University of Tulsa, April 25, 1993".
"Compassion feels dangerous to the powerful. If I begin to truly feel your pain, I run the risk of having to change. I may have to stop doring something I'm doing now. Or start doing something I'm not. I may have to give over some of my power. Compassion is inconvenient. .... Compassion prevents us from objectifying other people, the necessary first step towards killing them with whatever death we do that, the death of the body or the death of the soul."
Brief note re "Bell Professorship in Anglican and Ecumenical Studies" and "Future Lectures" on inside front cover. Biographical note on "The Most Reverend Edmond L. Browning" and brief note re "Past Bell Lecturers" on inside back cover.
Series
Bell Distinguished Visiting Professorship and Lecture series ; 4