Concern was expressed that people in general have not been adequately prepared for marriage breakdowns where clergy are involved.
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That the National Executive Council ask the new Committee on Ministry (i) to further consider the issues of pastoral concern on Marriage breakdown involving clergy, and (ii) concern of placement of candidates now in training for ordination. CARRIED
Clergy couples from the ecclesiastical province of Rupert's Land met in a 3-day conference in Lumsden, Saskatchewan. There are 17 clergy couples in Rupert's Land.
Anglican clergy in the North are eligible to apply to a special bequest for help in defraying the costs of educating their children.
The Marguerite Arletta Cooper Bequest is to be used "for the education of a child or children of a minister or missionary" of the Anglican Church in the Canadian North.
33. If any Bishop or Clergyman who is entitled to rank upon the Fund shall marry while upon the Fund (whether superannuated or not) or after he has attained the age of sixty years, or if any Bishop or Clergyman as aforesaid shall marry or shall have married while he is on the list of retired, superannuated or aged and disabled Clergy of his Diocese, the widow and children, if any, of such Bishop or Clergyman by such marriage, shall not be entitled to any benefit from this Fund, and the Committee shall have no power to waive this provision.
The Report of the Clergy Marriages Task Force was received and discussed. The policy of the Diocese of Calgary with respect to dysfunction and marital breakdown was found to be helpful in setting out a model of diocesan procedures and guidelines for the caring of clergy families. Some elements of it might be in conflict with human rights codes.
The bishops were informed that a Personnel Review Task Force has been established to study what services the national office is providing the dioceses since the retirement of the Reverend Richard Johns. A questionnaire is to go to all bishops as well as other networks of the church, and a recommendation will be made to NEC at some time in the future.
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That this House asks the Primate to set up a Task Force to consider ways of enabling the implementation of the recommendations of the Clergy Marriage Report in the various dioceses across the country and report to a future meeting of the House. CARRIED
At the meeting the spring of 1999 held in Quebec city the bishops' spouses developed a motion, (during one of their own sessions,) which they sent to the House of Bishops for discussion at a future meeting. Copies of that motion were distributed to the members of the House. It was agreed that the motion from the bishops' spouses could not be put to a vote at the meeting because it was not from a member of the House itself. Also there was no mover or seconder for the motion. It read:
"Be it resolved that
a) There be a fund (if there is no such fund in the spouse's diocese) established to assist clergy spouses to obtain counseling for personal and family matters.
(Note: this fund would be similar to an Employee Assistance Program where anonymity is an important factor. As spouses have set up partnerships at the last meeting, could one spouse inquire and assist another spouse in obtaining this support to protect his or her privacy.)
b) There be funds made available for additional meetings of spouses. (Option A: that spouses be invited to attend at least one House of Bishops meeting a year.
Option B: that all interested spouses be invited to attend a regional meeting of spouses at a central location once a year.)"
Bishop Ferris requested that staff at the national office investigate what the costs incurred would be to include spouses who are not currently included on an employee assistance plan.
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"That the motion from the spouses of the bishops put before the House of Bishops for discussion, be referred to the metropolitans." CARRIED Res.# HB-06-05-00
That the following recommendation be received by the House of Bishops:
1. That the House of Bishops establish and publish a national policy on the pastoral care of troubled clergy marriages and families.
2. That the policy should include these elements:
(a) Provision for the continued use of a rectory or other housing by the separated spouse or family for up to six months, or until a time of year when a move would be appropriate, for example, the end of the school year;
(b) Provision for financial care of a separated spouse or family for up to six months;
(c) Provison for moral and professional support for all troubled parties by a person or group independent of the diocesan authorities. CARRIED
The author reflects on his family upbringing and especially about how his father, Bruce Chambers, became "a great rector's wife" when his mother, the Rev. Prue Chambers, was ordained and became an Anglican priest when the author graduated from high school. Chambers was proud of both his parents but especially his father, a TD bank executive, who now moved to support his wife's vocation. "Instead of her following him, he now followed her to Aurora, Ont., and then down to Scarborough. He sang in the choir, hosted the chancel guild and invited the church servers to barbecues, took home communion to shut-ins and performed so many of those welcoming ministries that a 'rector's wife' was expected to perform". "St. Francis of Assisi said, 'Preach the Gospel at all times, and when necessary, use words'. My father often preached a gospel about parenting to me through those years. It was a gospel preached by example, not words. And that gospel is one that has guided my parenting. I hope my own boys are picking up that same gospel for when they are adults themselves".
Author is "communications co-ordinator for the Primate's World Relief and Development Fund".
"The purposes of this study are threefold. First, to locate currently functioning practices which have been designed to: a) prepare clergy and spouse for marriage; b) sustain clergy marriages; c) sustain bishops and spouses in their married life; d) respond to marital and family problems in clergy families. Second, to encourage the establishment of programs in every theological college and diocese which are proactive in nurturing clergy marriages. .... Third, to recommend programs which are straightforward to administer and practical in their scope, based on an already existing and effective models wherever possible". -- Purposes of this Study.
"The return rate of questionnaires was literally phenomenal, as follows: Episcopal Bishops 93/115 (80.9 %); Anglican Bishops 30/30 (100 %); Anglican Theological Colleges 16/17 (94.1 %); and Episcopal Seminaries and Schools of Theology 9/14 (64.3 %)". -- Acknowledgements.
Contents: Acknowledgements dated Cathedral Church of Our Saviour, Nelson, British Columbia, June 1984 / David J. Rolfe -- Purposes of this Study -- Are Clergy Marriages Just Like All Others ? -- Preparing Clergy for Marriage -- Sustaining Clergy Marriage -- Sustaining the Marriage of Bishops -- Clergy Marriages in Difficulty -- Recommendations -- Resources -- References -- The Author.